Что делать, если родители не поддерживают тебя в новых начинаниях?


Родители не поддерживают тебя в новых начинаниях
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Не все из нас получают от своих родителей поощрение в новых начинаниях. Можно ли идти своей дорогой и не испортить отношения с семьей?

Попробуй наладить разговор

Всегда помни, что необходимо соблюдать спокойствие и логичность. Не кричи, не обвиняй, не требуй. Если уж ты решилась на серьезный разговор, то прими тот факт, что он точно не будет легким, но зато поможет решить некоторые разногласия. Встань на место родителей, подумай, почему они могут не одобрять твоих начинаний.

Но всегда помни и том, что ты — взрослый человек, который сам в состоянии решить, как ему поступать. Поблагодари родителей за советы, но скажи, что ты будешь идти своим путем, каким бы трудным он ни был.

Мы все очень разные в силу возраста, жизненного пути и опыта, но это не должно становиться преградой на пути ваших хороших, доверительных отношений.

Одобрение не требуется

Хорошо, когда родители поддерживают тебя, но тебе не обязательно нужна их поддержка, чтобы успешно заниматься тем, что тебе нравится или чего ты хочешь. Если тебе трудно выносить их наставления, попробуй отойти на время и сконцентрироваться на своих делах. Когда ты достигнешь успеха, ты сможешь показать им, что они были неправы.

Главное — получать удовольствие

Возможно, что родители поменяют свое мнение, когда увидят, что ты получаешь колоссальное удовольствие от того, что делаешь; будь то удаленная работа бухгалтером или новое безумное хобби. Когда тебе нравится процесс, мнение остальных уже не имеет такого веского значения.

Помни, что вы — семья

Родители всегда переживают за тебя. Они бывают резкими и рассудительными только потому, что им не все равно, что ты делаешь. Вероятнее всего, им необходимо время, чтобы принять новое в твоей жизни. Не стоит злиться на них или разрывать общение, они такие же живые люди, как и ты.


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