5 убеждений, которые мешают тебе найти любовь

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Ангелина Никонова
04 апреля 2023
5 убеждений, которые мешают тебе найти любовь

Построить крепкие отношения зачастую мешают внутренние негативные установки. Как изменить свое мышление и найти любовь?

Чрезмерная романтизация

Многие девушки, начитавшись любовных романов и насмотревшись романтических комедий, верят в сказочную любовь и принца на белом коне. Поэтому, столкнувшись со сложностями в отношениях, которые не соответствуют вымышленным историям, они быстро разочаровываются и расстаются с партнерами. 

Большие требования

Слишком строгие требования к окружающим — еще одна проблема, с которой сталкиваются девушки во взрослой жизни. Нежелание идти на компромисс — признак узкого мышления и причина, по которой они не могут найти свою любовь.

Низкая самооценка

Если ты сама себя не любишь, то и другие не смогут. Девушки с низкой самооценкой убеждены, что их не за что любить, и окружающие не могут испытывать к ним чувств. Прежде чем отправляться на поиски любви, наладь отношения с самой собой. 

Работа над отношениями

«Отношения — это не работа, и все должно получаться само собой» — ошибочное убеждение, которого придерживаются многие девушки. Отношения — это компромиссы, анализ себя и своего партнера, обретение новых навыков и самосовершенствование.

Прошлые неудачи

Если ты закрываешься из-за прошлых неудач, открыться новой любви будет сложно. Прошлые уроки — это опыт, который нужно взять с собой и двигаться дальше. Не стриги всех под одну гребенку.

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